On 14th February, St. Valentine's Day, we hosted a ladies night.
Finding somewhere to eat on Valentine's Day where you are not surrounded by tables for two with couples gazing dreamily into each other's eyes, subdued lighting so that you can't see what you're eating (never mind read the menu), flowers on the table that bring on your allergies and cringeworthy soppy music, can be tricky if not impossible. Not to mention the silly prices.
So, we invited some of our single friends round for an evening of friendship, food and fun. We did a retro 1970's menu and a quiz (with prizes) on the subject of Valentine, love, hearts and roses. It was great fun and could easily become an annual event.
Only a few days later we went to a Chinese New Year event. It's the year of the horse and dressing up was (as usual) encouraged.
Nick dressed up as a jockey. All we needed was a pair of long johns to complete the outfit.
I dressed up as a stable hand. All props model's own (although Nick's best green wellies).
We are however, somewhat on tenterhooks. This time last year we were fast becoming nervous wrecks as our applications to renew our cartes de séjour went pear shaped. You can read all about that here.
We applied much earlier this time, fourteen weeks before expiry date in fact. The very earliest you can apply is sixteen weeks before the cards expire - which is in two weeks from now.
Yesterday, twelve weeks after we applied, we received our "prolongations". These are the documents that extend the period of the visas by three months - three months that the Prefecture gives itself to consider the application. The good thing about the document is that it restores our right to live in France and, importantly, to return to France after a visit back home to England, for three months beyond the period of the visa. (Something we never had to even think about when Britain was in the EU.)
You have to wonder why bother to apply almost four months before if nothing is going to be done until they have almost expired anyway!
The prolongations came with, as anticipated, some questions. This time they were straightforward, easy to answer and carried no threat of refusal. However, in the coming three months there's time for all that but we're trying to be positive.
To celebrate the step forward we went for lunch at one of our favourite restaurants, Le George in Loches. The "menu du jour" there is always delicious, only a couple of euros more than the mediocre menus served at a number of other places, and the ambience and service are excellent.
We were conscious that this is where we were last year when the phone call came from the lady at France Services telling us we had to sort the problem out quickly or we could be deported.
This year, we do feel somehow more relaxed. Fingers crossed that this time it goes smoothly, that we get our "décision favourable" and cards sooner, and that we don't have quite so many sleepless nights worrying about what we would do if the Prefecture said "non".
(They have no grounds on which to say "non" but the computer programme dealing with applications last year thought otherwise. Let’s hope they have fixed that.)









I hope this year is much less stressful for you both
ReplyDeleteGetting the "prolongations" is a good and positive sign!
DeleteI just got caught up with what happened last year - quelle horreur! I'm hoping it all goes smoothly this time - with NO stress.
ReplyDeleteEnjoy the spring that is soon to arrive.
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